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I have lived in the Boston area for the past twenty years,
about ten miles from where I grew up. I have also lived in
Ohio, Utah, California, New Hampshire, and New York City.
And I first learned to read and write in Africa, where I rode
a donkey down a dirt path to a one-room schoolhouse. Its
these two elementsthe familiar, memory-laden intertwined
with the new and foreignthat best informs who I am as
a writer and a person. Other experiences that have influenced
me include the jobs Ive held as a teacher, bookstore
manager, editor, group therapist for schizophrenics, art therapist
for elderly refugees, Bed & Breakfast hostess, administrative
secretary, waitress.
I went to school for poetry and began as a poet and indeed
have published over thirty poems in little magazines. But
then a strange thing happened to me. I wanted to write about
people and ideas; I wanted to tell a story. Poetry would not
allow this.
Try writing sentences, suggested a writer friend.
And so I did. I wrote a novel (unpublished) and some short
pieces (one or two got published). Next, life sent me two
health crises: I underwent reproductive therapy in order to
get pregnant and my then husband got prostate cancer. All
of a sudden, I was immersed in drama and suspense. I, who
knew nothing about science or medicine, found myself reading
esoteric medical publications. And from the juncture of all
these events, my two (published) memoirs were born. In fact,
writing about my experiences helped me to find meaning in
what otherwise would have been merely ordeals. And my training
as a poet gave me the skills to hone language and manipulate
metaphor.
For many years I wrote in a tiny, triangle-shaped office
in mammoth brick building that was originally used as a social
hall by the Knights of Malta. I was high up, on the fourth
floor, where my neighbors were an eccentric Italian furniture
restorer, a jazz composer, and a social service agency for
El Salvadorian refugees. I liked knowing these people are
around (we shared a hall bathroom) but I exchanged as few
words with them as possible. I rented the office for the silence
and freedom from distraction. Now that my son is older and
in school, I can work at home, which is currently the top
floor of a three-decker building. I am eye level with the
sparrows and cardinals building nests and raising their young
under my neighbors eaves. The birds wake me early and
sing all day.
One of the dangers of the writer's life is the isolation
that working alone can inevitably bring. Collaborating on
an anthology with a co-editor and in direct correspondence
with over twenty other contributing writers was an excellent
antidote to writerly loneliness. More and more, I am finding
it productive and meaningful to work in collaboration with
others; fellow writers, professionals with a book idea, people
with a story to tell.
Nowadays, I am writing much more about other people and much
less about myself. For one of my current writing projects,
I traveled to Vienna, Austria to research a group of champion
swimmers who were famous in the 1930s. The swimmers belonged
to a vibrant Jewish sports clubHakoahwhich fought
anti-Semitism with athletic achievements. I wont say
any more for fear of jinxing the work, except that coincidentally,
my grandfather once played on the Hakoah soccer team.
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